I Do Hate the Baby Phase but That Doesn’t Make Me a Bad Parent

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I Do Hate the Baby Phase but That
I Do Hate the Baby Phase but That

We recently had dinner with our church friends. They were at the beginning of twenty, a young couple with a one-month Baby. It was her first child. Mel and I have three children, the youngest of which is five. We talked about Late-Night conversation, nausea and nausea about diapers and other terrible things related to baby care. Suddenly I said something near ” I hate the sight of the baby.”

The Beginning of the Story

couples talking while having dinner
couples talking while having dinner

My wife Mel was sitting next to the same table as me. She rolled her eyes and agreed. Then the couple looked at each other with a shocked face. They smiled and one of them asked: “Is it normal to like the sight of the baby?”I’m pretty miserable.”.

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Honesty Time:

angry mom holding her baby
angry mom holding her baby

There were many reasons to be unhappy, and the husband had just received a caesarean section and wanted to take care of the new Baby while the husband worked outside the House. Her two eyes were kind of bloody, and they obviously tried to dress well for dinner, but both of them are some panties on their shirts, some of a pee they might have had these strange white spots, those who spit, those who know.

The Story Continues

new father struggling with his baby
new father struggling with his baby

I saw them both and immediately remembered that I was a new father who took care of this little head-to-head boy who only slept when someone was in bed . He sat on the Couch and held like a football. I still remember that I was always exhausted and only slept to wake up in strange places in the city, in College classes, in the waiting room and on the Bus, which I did not recognize.

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And for what? It does not mean that the Baby can say thank you or Smile, hugs, or other interesting things. They spread out like tear bags, asking them to take care of their needs and to take care of their work, their homework or their other children.

I love my kids. I don’t regret having some of them. They made me a better person and they showed me what it really meant and I meant that I really love someone. But this whole little step is ridiculous. It is this terrible time with little sleep and many unknowns. I want to make a difference, but nothing happens. You’re just pretending to hurt him. You only want if you can take a Moment, but you really can’t and you tie this little freckles to your body and your gland.

But! There Is More to It:

I know there are probably so many people who read it openly. Some people love very small babies. It is well described and is regarded as a great step towards rapprochement. And when you subscribe, you know what’s better for you. I’m glad you like these little nails are full of Shit.

I understand for you who are concerned that your child is doing something different than crying or stuffing nappies. I’m here to straighten the record. She sucks it. I’m with you it’s normal not to like the baby’s stage. There are many parents who do not like toddlers on stage or in pre-school or teenage years on stage. They talk openly about it, and all nod, but for some reason the stage of the baby is the sacred ground, about which one can discuss with fear. However, as with any period or stage of development, it can be zero. I made a mistake. The facts are facts and I’m not a Fan.

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Let’s return to this dinner with these new parents. This mother saw me walking on the ice. As if we were working in a very rough lake and she wasn’t convinced that it was OK for us. I could see her suffering from the red eyes that hung on her shoulders, but like many new parents, she was afraid to say so. I went there to talk, but my wife Mel came in before I could do it.

“Many mothers do not become mothers,” she says. “Everyone loves age. Now I’m in love with our Tweens. But I could forego a Baby.”

What’s important for you to know?

I can’t tell you that acknowledging the truth about the Baby has made the life of this couple easier. I can’t say that you’ve solved all the problems with parenthood or made your marriage a little healthier. At this point I can say, however, that I inhaled deeply when I heard from my experienced parents that they shared the fight against childhood.

How about you, do you love or do you hate the Baby Phase?

Share with us your opinion.

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